Should There Be Catalyst

catalyst..too increase the reaction faster..in other way round...to make easy for sumthing to happen...catalyst can help in bonding to happen..but it also help to make it break..so, are they should be a catalyst in every relationship?? well, what i mean here is the third parties..it can be our friends, family, God or anonymous...

in my point of view..i do like the 'catalyst'...but i`m not going to be it b'cos not suit me well...to be the catalyst is not easy acctually...you need to separate the emotion from the relationship..so that you not giving the wrong advise or the most should avoide thing is to be involving 'inside' the relationship itself...that why i say it earlier that the catalyst can be use for bonding or separating...i bet you hold pretty much secret, and let it be secret okey...ssyyyhhh...

for me, catalyst give me a favour..there where i go for soul chatting..haha..even how well we could be, there still a small space for defect to happen..and perhaps the third parties can give a helping hand..but remember, we are the one who responssible to sattle it down in our own way..not the catalyst...if the one itself cannot do it, then nor should the third parties..b'cos you dont want to be drag into other people problems...

we cannot go trough this life all by yourself...be thankfull to the people around us..maybe you are not good to be a catalyst but make sure you will appreciate the catalyst as it be part of your journey in here...haha...if it werent for catalyst, perhaps the reaction whouldn`t happen at all...thx catalyst, i learn very much from you..and now i know how to fly~~~

sigh "when the catalyst is increase, rate of reaction increase..in contradiction..when the catalyst is decrease, rate of reaction decrease"